Wednesday, 9 April 2014

I know things now

Lessons learnt since becoming a mum




Becoming a mum has changed me. There is no doubt in my mind that the moment Little Miss H was put in my arms my world became a different place. I know things now.

I know that I doubt every decision I take because it doesn't just affect me or Mr H. We have a little person that is completely dependant on us and that is truly terrifying. 

I know that I could never have imagined loving my daughter this much. 

I know that I would do anything to protect her from the big bad world and I am scared to death of her feeling the pain that I have felt at times in my life. But I know that she is her own person and has her own life to live, her own mistakes to make and her own pain to feel. I can't stop that from happening anymore then I can stop the earth from turning. As her mother, all I can do is love her unconditionally. 

I know that even if I am the best mother in the world at some point Little Miss H will hate me. It will break my heart but I know that it is part of her growing up.

I know that days pass in a blink of an eye and without me even knowing how it has happened my daughter is almost one. 

I know that I am no longer a push over and I would fight to the death to protect my child. 

I know that my body will never be the same but I am so proud of everything it has achieved. 

I know that I love my husband more than ever because he is an awesome father. 

I know things now and they are the best lessons I've ever learnt. 

Hugs, 

Mrs H 

xxxx

P.S. Please share with me what you have learnt since becoming a parent? 
P.P.S. I have linked this post up to the @SundaysStars linky. A new linky that is being run by myself and a number of fabulous bloggers. It is a place to share your star posts, both old and new. This week I am hosting with the gorgeous Steph at Diary of a Midlife Mummy.
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10 comments :

  1. Oh, this is a lovely post. It's really amazing how much you learn about yourself once you become a parent, isn't it? My little girl is eight months old and she has taught me so much. I never knew I could be so patient or that I could survive with so little sleep. I've learned how to love another human in a completely new way that's actually quite staggering and I've also learned to love and trust my husband even more than I did before. (I think you might have inspired a blog post from me, so thanks for that!) :-) #ArchiveDay

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    1. Hi Shannon. Thanks so much for visiting my little blog and leaving a lovely comment. I am surprised how much having Little Miss H has changed me. I think I change more each day as she develops and grows. Hugs Mrs H xxxx

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  2. It's amazing how much you learn as a parent . I've learnt I can survive on not a lot of sleep haha

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    1. Ha ha. Sadly, I've learnt that too. And I love sleep too. Thanks for visiting and commenting. Hugs Mrs H xxxx

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  3. Super post huni. I feel the same as you! I love my hubby more, I love my daughter more than I thought I could love anyone and I realise that family (and GOOD friends) is all that matters x #SUndayStars

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    1. Thanks for your lovely comments about the post. It is amazing. I could never have imagined loving my little family as much as I do. Hugs Mrs H xxxx

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  4. Yes, yes, yes, yes... I agree with all of your points. I would fight to the death for my girls! Also, like you my love for my husband has grown since we've become parents. He's such an amazing dad and for me that's the sexiest thing ever!! xx

    #SundayStars

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    1. Ha ha ha! Thanks for your comment. You are so right. Your hubby being a good father is very sexy. Now go get a room. Hugs Mrs H xxxx

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  5. Oh wow - this is all so beautiful and totally true. I agree wholeheartedly with all of the above. Its a massively new way of living and loving. Hard work but nothing I would want to change in a million years! And like you - I dread the further, dread them being hurt and would dread being the 'other' person if anyone wrongs them, as like you - I will totally take them out!!!! Haha - Shhhh!! I'm nice really!!!! Love this post. Love Steph xxx #SundayStars

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    1. Ahhhh Steph. You are lovely. But no one messes with our kids and walks away unscathed. I am a lioness. Hear me roar. Rrrrrrraaaaahhhh! Hugs Mrs H xxxx

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